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SISTER SILENA MOORE HOLMAN (1850–1915)
Women in the Church
by David Lipscomb
(GOSPEL ADVOCATE, 21 November 1888)
Please read sister Holman's article on
another page before reading this.
We think our sister should not excite or encourage a desire in
other women that is so repugnant to her own womanly instincts and
feelings.
We have nowhere said that woman was inferior to man in talent or
position. We have said she has not the same talent, taste, combination of
faculties, moral, social or physical. Hence is not adapted to the same
work.
Hers is a more quiet, less public work, but the quiet, less showy
work is the more important work in all departments of life. Training
children at home has more to do with the moral and of religious life and
character of the children and the world than public preaching. If the
world is only to receive the benefit of a good home training from
Christian mothers, or to hear public preaching, we say by all means let it
have the home training of Christian mothers. Because this is absolutely
necessary to the child, the mother is doubtless prohibited by God from all
public work because it would interfere with this her special work and the
important work for the world. The most sacred trust committed to mortals
is the training of children for immortality. This God committed to women,
and cut her off from all other works that would distract her from this
work. Certainly this is not saying woman is inferior to man or has been
assigned an inferior position. Still she is not suited for the work which
has been assigned to man. If each follows the work for which God fitted
them and to which he has called them they exactly complement each other
and it takes both and the work of both to carry out the work of the Lord.
There need be no question of inferiority or superiority. Men and women in
the same community stand about equal in regard for morality and virtue.
Man is much what woman makes him, woman is much what man demands she must
be.
Our sister thinks that if woman voted, there would be no licensed
saloons, nor gambling houses, nor whore houses, nor places tempting men
and women to sin. She seems to think these evils all exist because wicked
man votes to license them. Well, my dear sister, man is what his mother
makes him. The great and good men are always conceded to be the work of
their mothers. The bad men are just as much the work of their hands.
Then the whore house, and the gambling houses are not licensed. Strong
laws to suppress them have been enacted. The license of the saloon does
not encourage drinking. The license was intended as a restriction and
discouragement of the use of intoxicants. In the natural state, every man
made, sold and drank as much whiskey as he pleased. There was no license
then. The trouble was mothers and fathers raised their boys to so love
and drink whisky, it became such a crying evil, men and women concluded
the good of the community demanded that restrictions should be thrown
around the manufacture and sale, to check its use. They forbid anyone
making or selling it without paying a tax and securing a license, which
license contained restrictions intended to guard and discourage the use of
it. It may be that the time has come when a still greater prohibition can
be laid on it, but when a man or woman lays the love and custom of drink
to the license they do not know what they talk about.
Woman has done much to cultivate the love of drink in her
children. She has done and is now doing much to discourage the use of it,
but her effective work is done at home, in teaching her children the evil
of it and instilling into them principles of morality and religious
integrity. Without this strength of moral principle all the laws in the
world will not check intemperance or sin of any kind. She finds other
motives than the love of public life hindering women from child-bearing.
Most certainly, yet it had its origin in the same homes, grew in the same
soil with her love for the rostrum. The idea of its being not wrong once
admitted many occasions for committing the crime is found. Here are
statistics furnished by Mr. Talmage:
According to the statistics of Prof. Dikes in one year in moral
New Hampshire there were 241 divorces; in temperate Maine, 478 divorces;
in good old Massachusetts, 600 divorces, and in New England of
“steady habits,” 2,113. In one county in Illinois 830 divorce
suits were begun in one year, and in many places it seems as if a new
arrangement had been made of the commandments, and instead of ten there
were only nine, the seventh commandment having been left out. When you
see how many husbands and wives are parted by law, and know of so many who
would like to dissolve conjugal partnership, do you not come to the
conclusion that Satan is engaged in mighty industries.
Woman and men are about equals in morality. It is probable God
overrules Miss Willards course to bring some good out of it to humanity.
He does most usually overrule mans rebellion, to bring good out of it to
man. Man would be in a deplorable condition if he did not. But I have no
more doubt that her course as a whole is hurtful to humanity and
dishonouring to God.
Paul said an unmarried woman could devote her time to God with
more undivided consecration than the married one. He said this could be
done in the then crisis of a persecution, “the present
distress,” 1 Cor. vii 26 resting upon them, just as a woe was
pronounced on those who were with child and who gave suck when certain
terrible days where to come on them. Nor do I understand that Paul
intended to declare that every woman should marry. But those who love to
make themselves conspicuous, officious, seek publicity and are forward in
seeking to lead in the church. These are certainly commanded to marry,
guide the house and give no occasion to speak evil of the cause. A woman
may devote herself to the work of the church today and never make a public
speech. Thousands do. Our sister seems to have the idea that no service
can be done for God except by public harangue. The same hurtful idea
hinders men from trying to do personal service to God, unless they can
make public harangues.
Dr. Clark said “The structure of womans body plainly proves
that she was never designed for those exertions required in public
life.” “God has not only rendered her unfit for it, but he has
subjected her (expressly) to the government of men.”
That is plain. If he anywhere says she ought to engage in the
public ministries he contradicts himself. But he does use an expression
that may be so construed, and our sister construes the plain by the
doubtful as she does Pauls language.
Did the Holy Spirit say woman had “wrecked a world”
when leading and so he could not trust her again to lead? Not in so many
words. But God speaking through Paul, giving a reason why she should not
speak and lead in the assemblies says, “Adam was not deceived, but
woman being deceived was in the transgression.” The transgression
in which she led turned the world over to the devil and wrecked it.
But he tells her “she shall be saved,” notwithstanding
that fatal misstep in turning the world over to the devil, “in
child-bearing, if they will continue in faith and charity and holiness
with sobriety.”
While I think it clearly a mistake that we can find no example of
women singing or partaking of the Lords supper, I only add if it were
true, and then coupled with a declaration of Holy Writ, “I suffer
not a woman to sing or to partake of the bread and wine,” I would
say woman ought not to sing or partake of the Lords Supper.
But all did speak on the day of Pentecost! Well if our sister
will look back into the first chapter she will see the all did not
include the women. In verse 14th, “These all (apostles) continued
with one accord in prayer and supplication, with the women and Mary the
mother of Jesus and his brethren,” showing that these all were the
apostles, and the women and the mother of Jesus and his brethren are in
addition to these all. Then Peter in speaking of what these all must do
recognized only, “men and brethren.” When the day of
Pentecost was come fully, these all were in one accord in one
place. These same all were filled with the Holly Ghost and began to speak
with other tongues as the spirit gave them utterance. Now it is not
certain a single woman was present, if so they were in addition to the all
mentioned. Then again when the public preaching began only Peter with the
eleven taught the public assembly. This last is positive and there is not
the shadow of ground for saying a woman spoke on this occasion, nor can I
with a number of commentators at hand, find one that so construes it.
There is no doubt women received spiritual gifts during the apostolic age,
but not the least evidence that these led her to speak in public.
The Holy Spirit said, “It is a shame for women to speak in
the church.” It says that Priscilla and Aquilla did teach Apollos
the way of the Lord more perfectly. But our sister believes if it is
right for a woman to teach one it is right for her to teach a hundred and
there is no difference between public teaching and private. In this
persistence she thoroughly vindicates her womanly nature. She wants it
so—and it is so, and that is the end of it. But now if our sisters
will train their own children to be true Christians, true and faithful to
God, the conversion of the world will be speedily accomplished without
women entering public life.
(e-text: JoAnne Toews)
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